It's Never Too Late..
For anyone who has been reading these posts for any length of time, you know that I am lamenting the fact that in July I will be turning 40. I don't know what the hype is about or what the benchmarks even are. I only know that a little bit of panic is always just under the surface when I think about it for too long! While I haven't given up on the aspect of having a healthier lifestyle for my 40's than in the past (I know, I know, the iced mocha latte's have GOT to go!!) I am given hope and inspiration by two long-time friends who are showing that maybe life begins at 40!!
When I was in my 20's and living in Naperville I worked at Centennial Beach and one of my dear friends from there, Jill Wilson, 41, just proved that it's never too late for love! Last weekend she married in what I can only imagine was a celebration to remember. I was unable to attend since my husband was in Germany, but what a gala it must have been! Jill is an only daughter and a sorority gal from the University of Indiana. The wedding festivities took place in San Antonio, Texas at some pretty awesome historical locations and the entire weekend began with a "Welcome Party" Fiesta--and dress attire to show your Fiesta Spirit. And the weekend contained many such festivities throughout. Parties and activities designed to join together two families and two sets of friends that will follow and support them throughout their life together. It doesn't get much better than that.
One of my very good Clay High School friends is putting my inablilty to get my hind end on the treadmill to great shame! In June, at age 40, Lisa Morse will compete in the King's Trail, an olympic distance triathalon....in Hawaii! She is also raising money for a good cause at the same time to honor a few special people in her life affected by cancer. Check out her website at: www.active.com/donate/tntsofl/LisasTriForLife . My memories of Lisa are wrapped in Flashdance-style torn sweatshirts, Pat Benatar cassettes played very loudly, and Friday nights at the hockey rink....oh, and lots and lots of laughing! I am so proud of her athletic accomplishments and fundraising goals! I am inspired and encouraged by these two friends to try new and challenging things and dream big, even as we are perched atop this proverbial "hill" that we are about to go over! Hope springs eternal!!!!
Quote of the Day- “Do not fear risk. All exploration, all growth is calculated. Without challenge people cannot reach their higher selves. Only if we are willing to walk over the edge can we become winners.” ~~Author Unknown
4 Comments:
Mindy,
I was just thinking about this topic today, as I'll be 40 in December. I've decided that my dear old friend and neighbor, Elissa Ianno, who passed away from breast cancer when she was 37, would be ticked at me if I lamented about the priviledge of growing another year older. So, we move forward with a smile and thankfulness!
Love ya Min! Have a very happy birthday July girl!
Jean
Thanks for the early birthday wishes, Jean, and I agree, for many it would be an honor to be given the gift of growing another year older. I will think of it that way and be happy!!
Incidentally, my friend who was participating in the King's Trail triathalon finished 148th out of 367!! Way to go, Lisa!!
Hi Mindy,
Nice to read your Blog!!!
Really impressive.
Keep in touch.
Take Care.
Bye
Mindy,
I buried a good friend yesterday, she died of cancer at 57. This made me think of Elissa's mom who died when we were in highschool.
So, i googled Elissa's name hoping to get in contact with her. I can't believe Elissa died at 37 from breast cancer. I will always remember her big brown caring eyes her wonderful voice and what a great friend she was. I will alway regret waiting this long to google her name. God Bless
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